Cain Manor

Up to 123
Exclusive Use
Wedding Licence

About Cain Manor

Cain Manor is a modern barn-style wedding venue with accommodation located at the end of a wonderful woodland approach on the border of Surrey and Hampshire. Owned and managed by Harper Weddings, Cain Manor can accommodate wedding ceremonies both inside and out, and can seat up to 123 guests for an indulgent banquet in the bright, magical Music Room. This unique country house wedding venue oozes character and charm throughout; from the beautiful period features to the old oak floors. The grounds and gardens at Cain Manor are perfectly manicured throughout the year and offer far-stretching views over Surrey’s Golden Valley. Up to 170 guests may be invited to dance and celebrate during an evening wedding reception at Cain Manor so that you can party the night away with all your nearest and dearest.

Cain Manor is only available to hire on an exclusive use basis for 24 hours, ensuring you have complete privacy throughout your special day. This policy means nobody wandering through your wedding snaps and a feeling of total relaxation in the space. This cosy barn wedding venue offers a spacious bridal suite as well as 12 additional suites for your overnight guests to enjoy.

Upon booking your wedding at Cain Manor, you will be introduced to an experienced wedding planning team who will support and guide you throughout your planning journey with Harper Weddings. With professionals at your every disposal, no detail is too big or small for them to consider; they ensure your every whim is met so that you have the perfect day. You’ll be invited to planning meetings and a menu tasting, prepared carefully by a brigade of in-house chefs and you’ll also be given access to a proprietary online wedding planning tool, which will enable you to keep your wedding plans up to date and organised from wherever you are in the world.

Good to know about Cain Manor

Wedding Facilities
Bridal changing facilities, In house wedding coordinator, Master of ceremony or toastmaster available, On site parking
Alcohol Licence, Confetti permitted, Disabled access, Exclusive Use, On site Accommodation, Wedding Licence
Type of Venue
Barn, Country venue, Historic, Outdoor, Small and intimate
Venue Style
Alternative, Rustic, Traditional, Unusual

Cain Manor Rooms

The Music Room

The Music Room

Seated Wedding Breakfast Capacity: 123

The Music Room can seat up to 123 guests for a wedding banquet and ceremony, and for evening celebrations can host up to 170 people.

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Location for Cain Manor

Churt Road, Headley Down, Hampshire, GU35 8SR

0345 130 9966


Testimonials For Cain Manor

Cain Manor AUGUST, 2021

I have been racking my brain about what to say that can really show you how pleased, grateful, thankful we are for everything but I am not sure I can find the words to show you just how happy we truly are! Firstly, I just want to say the biggest thank you to Maddie and Casey who have just been there every step and without them (Maddie especially) it wouldn’t have been the day that it was. Secondly I just want to thank Sam and Antonio. What utter stars! They were just the loveliest people and could see they had everything under control. They were so polite, calming and generally fantastic to have around. So please just extend my biggest thank you to them! I also want to thank all the other staff for being so brilliant. There was one waiter in particular who I didn’t get the name of, but he took the best care of my friend who is pregnant. Her and her husband were so touched by the care he was giving her and making sure she was comfortable all day. These little touches really made us feel so cared for which is something I will always be grateful for, so again thank you to that star! The day was seamless. The number of comments we have had about how brilliant the venue was, how nice the food was and how impressed people were with the service etc has been overwhelming. It truly was the best day and I cannot thank you enough for making it happen. I will be forever grateful to you all!

Jenna & Brad

Cain Manor JULY, 2021

We had a wonderful day and I cannot praise the staff enough, first class , efficient and friendly. The venue was perfect absolutely spotless with excellent service . Thank you for making my daughter’s wedding worth waiting for and I can recommend Bijou at Cain Manor 100%.

Carol MOB

Cain Manor JULY, 2021

Our wedding was held at Cain Manor on 9th July 2021. I can honestly say it was the best day of my life in the most beautiful venue. The wedding planning team were second to none in the run up to the big day answering a myriad of questions with such efficiency and speed. Then the staff on the day surpassed all our expectations. From Dean and Antonio, the managers, to Emma who just checked in on my every need throughout the day. And as for the food, it is top end restaurant quality and all our guests commented on it. The venue itself could not be a more beautiful setting and its exclusivity just makes you feel like you are at home with your nearest and dearest. It is so intimate, discreet and magical. Like all brides, I had huge expecations for the day and I wouldn’t change a thing. Says it all.

Caroline & Mick

Cain Manor JUNE, 2021

Everyone we dealt with during our time at Cain Manor was excellent, and in particular Dean and Emma – nothing was too much trouble. Thanks to the online planner we were able to provide all our instructions ahead of time and then after leaving our extra decorations with the team were able to relax ahead of our big day. Everything we’d requested was carried out to the letter by the team, and the service was faultless throughout. As well as the appearance of the venue many of our guests also complimented the food – it’s amongst some of the best we’ve had, and as well as the beautiful surroundings made our day memorable. They do say people remember what they eat at a wedding and I think us and our guests certainly will! Whilst this isn’t a cheap venue to hire in my opinion you get what you pay for, and Cain Manor was worth every penny. We’d do it all again tomorrow if we could…. Thank you again for an amazing day!

Sarah & Steve


Is Weddings at Cain Manoravailable for exclusive hire?

Yes, Weddings at Cain Manor can be hired exclusively.

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Does Weddings at Cain Manor have on-site accommodation?

Yes, on-site accommodation is available

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Can you throw confetti at Weddings at Cain Manor?

Yes you can throw confetti.

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Does Weddings at Cain Manor have an in-house wedding coordinator?

Yes, Weddings at Cain Manor has a wedding coordinator .

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Does Weddings at Cain Manor have disabled access?

Yes, Weddings at Cain Manor has disabled access.

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Does Weddings at Cain Manor have bridal changing facilities?

Yes, Weddings at Cain Manor has bridal changing facilities.

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Does Weddings at Cain Manor have on-site parking?

Yes there is on-site parking.

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